Wow David, very comprehensive, thank you!
I'm not sure I understand why there's a mid point and end point harness "thingy" though (sorry, I know I'm being oh so technical lol)... Your first two photos is what I mean though... wouldn't it be enough to have just the ends of the light strings closest to the controller wired to a harness with the male/female type d25 connector and not have anything any further up the strings or am I missing something?